Each woman has her particularities that must be taken into account when wanting to do a good job on her feminine parts.
If you simply want to learn more or if you don’t know much about the subject and you are interested in delving into it, continue reading, because we have compiled several tips that will make you almost an expert on the subject (since, clearly you are going to lack putting it into practice). We have compiled information from the famous “Cosmopolitan” magazine and confessions from friends of friends (wink, wink) to make the basic rules that we should all know about cunnilingus or oral sex.
1) Clean your mouth afterwards
You just need to run your hand over your mouth. Nobody is talking about you cutting the moment and stopping to brush your teeth in the bathroom.
But yes, keep in mind that feminine fluids remained in your mouth. There is nothing wrong with this, but it can be messy for your partner if they are on your pear falling or if they make your beard very dirty.
Not all of them like to be kissed and left with the remains on their own face, so before kissing her, after having come down, we recommend you to clean your face a little.
Finally, there are very few women who, if their own vaginal fluid disgusts them, if that is the case, they try to hide their existence or find some kind of solution that makes kissing you later more enjoyable, for example, having a drink. little water
2) Don’t come down suddenly
It is important that you go down slowly and that you feel how your partner feels. The kisses, the correct stimulation of the breasts and nipples, the bites inside the thigh, among others. They are essential so that you can delicately reach that area. You must wait until you feel or until your partner tells you that he wants you to be between his legs.
Keep in mind that if you go too fast, it may be that your partner enters, for a moment, in a state of alert, which is your enemy, since it inhibits the state of excitement.
3) Ask for directions if you get lost
The most normal thing is that you can get lost down there. It’s not your gender, maybe you don’t have that much experience, the room is dark, etc. No problem. It never hurts to ask your partner for directions.
There are people who can feel ashamed to ask the opinion. But for women, it can be an exciting experience worrying about how to do what she particularly likes. Questions like: “higher?”, “slower?” or “am I there?” They are totally recommended to light the flame of passion.
4) Do not comment on the hair
It’s a very bad time to be commenting on vaginal hair. You do not have to be a genius to realize that it is a comment that does not help at all for both of them to have a happy ending during that night. So if you don’t have anything nice to say about the vagina, we recommend that you say nothing at all.
You may have seen that in porn movies women are super shaved, however, in reality there is everything.
On the other hand, if at another time, you want to comment on your partner’s vaginal hair, we recommend that you think about it, since your partner can easily put you in perspective that you really should not have an opinion on how she has her vagina. Unless, as a couple, they can reach some agreement where they both commit to changing something equivalent to themselves.
5) Don’t compare vaginas
All women can take into account that it is not the first time in your life that you see or that you are with a vagina. But not for that, you have to talk about it, at the moment, it is not interesting to talk about the differences and similarities between the last female sexes with whom you have been, much less, that you comment as you knew.
Although it may seem very obvious that you shouldn’t comment comparing vaginas, there are plenty of men who do.
6) If it’s not good, don’t say it
In case you haven’t noticed, women have insecurities about their vaginas. So if you don’t have anything nice to say about: the texture, smell or appearance, then really, it’s better that you don’t say anything. Because clearly, you’re going to be ruining the moment.
7) Beware of absorbing
Although the absorptions and suctions are exciting, they must be small and done with great care, since you must also take into account that you can do a lot of damage, without realizing it.
According to what the porn actress Amarna Miller exposed, it is that light suction movements are usually effective. However, it hurts when you try to suck on the clit like you’re sucking through a straw. It’s not about you licking right and left either, all women have an exact point where you have to learn to suck the right way. There are women who like to have their clitoris licked and, on the other hand, there are others who prefer to have their hood licked. The rhythm of all this always has to be set by the woman and you as a man, the ideal would be that you could begin to interpret the woman’s body, or ask her if she likes what you are doing.
8) Don’t go from 0 to 100 suddenly
Although cunnilingus is often considered as foreplay in penetrative sex, it does not mean that you have permission to go there directly, remember that it is the vagina, a very important organ for your partner and you must wait for her to want put your tongue out there
A mouth that enters unannounced and at high speed into a woman’s vagina is considered an invader and will cause her to want you to remove yourself. Therefore, you should always do it gently and wait for her to really feel that she wants oral sex.
