IS IT HARD TO SPEAK WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY WITH YOUR PARTNER? SOME TIPS TO DO IT WITHOUT FIGHTING!
Women are very communicative, attentive, detail-oriented, we love to be heard and understood, but above all, being understood is something that men have a hard time with. It is incredible that even being the same species we are so different and we are not on the same page, for example when we get together with friends most of the time we do not have to talk to understand what our partner needs or is thinking, we already know However, communicating with men is very complicated, so much so that sometimes I think we are from different planets because they are not really sensitive to our needs.
That is why we must change our way of communicating with them so that we can have a better relationship as a couple, more harmonious and with fewer fights. Here are some tips that will help you to be more assertive when it comes to wanting to let that man know that you are angry: Change the way you treat him, when he sees that you do not treat him the same way he will have to react and begin to question himself about him. Because of the change in your behavior. If for some reason you cannot talk at that moment, send him a text message exposing your anger and what was the trigger for it, it is the best thing so that things can be clarified and if your reasons are well founded then he must assume his responsibility and ask for forgiveness or make you see that there are no reasons for your anger.
Women have the tendency to go around the bush and not be assertive about how we feel, but that is our nature, this has to do with our sensitivity which many men do not have, we spend our lives believing that our man he is going to change and one day he will get up and without us asking him he will do all those things that make us very happy; I love you, which we want to hear at all times, if so, no matter what time or how many times we always want to hear it, “how beautiful you look”, thank you my love for your smile, you are my everything, a rose, a chocolate, something that we have been wanting to have but we cannot buy it for one reason or another, if we are not complicated, it is a matter of communication, if we talk to our partner, they would know how happy they can make us with such simple details. However they only use those things when they are trying to win our hearts because when they are trying to conquer us it is amazing to see how wonderfully creative they can be. That’s why some of us prefer to have admirers because that constant attention makes us happy. On the contrary, we do notice immediately when our partner is upset about something without him saying a single word to us, just by seeing his gestures we know that something is wrong and we immediately try to find out what the problem is and try to solve it. one way or another. That’s why some of us prefer to have admirers because that constant attention makes us happy. On the contrary, we do notice immediately when our partner is upset about something without him saying a single word to us, just by seeing his gestures we know that something is wrong and we immediately try to find out what the problem is and try to solve it. one way or another. That’s why some of us prefer to have admirers because that constant attention makes us happy. On the contrary, we do notice immediately when our partner is upset about something without him saying a single word to us, just by seeing his gestures we know that something is wrong and we immediately try to find out what the problem is and try to solve it. one way or another.
Couple, family or work relationships will always have conflicts, the point is that we learn how to react in each situation and thus lead a harmonious life and with the lowest percentage of conflicts, it is not easy but you can try. There are no perfect couples and at some point we will have an argument with the loved one, but if we know our partner and we know perfectly well the things that make them angry, then we work on them so that they are less frequent and if they do things that bother us, we are direct and let him know we don’t like it. If he loves us, that person will have a change in his behavior because when we truly love we do not want to cause suffering to that special person.
In summary, assertive communication is the key to having a good love relationship, let’s always let our partner know when we are angry; sometimes we let days, months, years go by and we are not able to tell him what bothers us and if he does not know or did not realize what he did bothers us obviously he will continue doing it and then our life will be miserable and full of pain and Nobody in this world wants to be unhappy. Assertiveness will lead us to make better decisions, to be more understanding and to be wise women in all areas of our lives, especially in our love life.
