How to make a man fall in love who only wants to sleep with you.

I am not a woman, I am a man. And I am a man who has been many times in the situation of having sex with women with whom he did not want anything serious. Why did he do it? Why am I not interested in anything else with them? How could they have made me fall in love?

That is what I plan to tell you in this article:

How to treat a man who just wants to sleep with you

First let’s get some myths out of the way

Contrary to what popular “wisdom” says, men are not all the same , what seduces some can completely discourage others. It all starts by opening up to the other person, listening to him, understanding his tastes and if the chemistry is there, you’re already on the right track.

Another very common myth among women is that men only want sex . What happens is that men who want sex spend their time interacting with (and often bothering) women to achieve their goal, so from a woman’s perspective it seems that men want sex much more than we really do. . Actually sex is only part of what a man looks for in a partner , men also need company, trust, contention, appreciation, love, and it is based on feelings, much more than sexual desire, that you can truly seduce your man and make him fall in love.

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But then why would a man have a relationship based only on sex?

Unlike what commonly happens with women, men do not choose our sexual partners so much, but rather our romantic partners. As much or perhaps even more than women. As for sex we are not so fussy, a man can have a casual sex relationship or stay as a lover of a woman even if he does not want her, much less love her .

Perhaps it is a difficult truth to digest, but if a man is only looking for you to have sex, then he does not love you, much less, he loves you. He only knows that he can have sex with you and uses your relationship to satisfy his desire or need. I did it, my friends have done it and maybe it doesn’t reflect very well on us as people and in my personal case I feel guilty for having done it, but the truth is that in reality it is something that usually happens on a daily basis. 

Can you get out of this situation and really seduce a man who only wants you to have sex?

It would be dishonest if I told you that falling in love with a man who only wants to sleep with you is possible in all cases, it is probably always easier to find another man with whom you have not yet had sex and seduce him, but in life there are no impossible.

The first thing you should do if you find yourself in this situation is to distance yourself , refuse to have sex in any outing or meeting you have with him, reject an invitation to go out, show him that if he loves you he will have to work to continue being with you . It is possible that if you do, he will stop being interested, most likely in this case, it is not worth it. But it is possible that fearing the idea of ​​losing you, he begins to think about you more seriously and to evaluate the possibility of considering you for a more formal relationship. If you achieve this, the path to love between the two of you will have already been paved.

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