Knowing how to make a girl squirt will make you the best lover she has ever been with, and here you will learn the steps to make any woman squirt.
Before I go any further, I want to quickly say that the legwork will make it much easier for you to make him squirt regularly. I’m talking about her anatomy and, more importantly, how to put her in a relaxed state of mind so that she’s willing and eager to orgasm.
What a female ejaculation?
Some people mistake squirts for urine, and the thought of peeing makes many women uncomfortable. Not only is comfort vital for a woman to orgasm, but if she thinks she is going to urinate, her partner may tense her muscles and this will prevent her from relaxing.
Why do women ejaculate?
Unlike peeing, squirting is an involuntary reaction to G-spot stimulation. So you have to rub her G-spot if you want to make a girl ejaculate. Squirting is often, but not always, the result of a G-spot orgasm. Squirting and peeing are similar in that the fluid is expelled from the same place, your urethra. She will shed a small amount of prostatic fluid, sometimes small enough that she won’t notice a difference between ejaculation and her natural arousal.
For some women, the amount of fluid is much higher and includes fluid stored in the bladder.
The holy G-spot
Her G-spot is going to be the most important part of her vagina when you learn how to make your girlfriend squirt.
Locating it is the first step to achieving an Azana like this. So, to find it with your fingers, insert a lubricated finger into her vagina and slide your fingertip (where the imprint is) along the upper wall. Your G-spot will be between 5 and 7 cm deep inside.
You’ll know you’ve found her G-spot because it will feel similar to a moist raspberry: smooth; It is slightly ribbed/textured with “grooves” on each side.
Important: The G-spot is easier to find when she is aroused. Just like your penis only gets hard when you’re aroused, his G-spot will remain hidden until he’s aroused and horny.
The key to making him come
Everyone thinks that to make him squirt, you have to perfect your fingering technique. They think that if their woman doesn’t ejaculate, it’s because they don’t rub, massage or press in the right way.
Often this is not the reason why you are not ejaculating the way you want.
The most common reason women can’t squirt is that they don’t get turned on enough.
So make sure she’s crazy, horny, aroused and ready to squirt.
She needs to be wetter than a pool
These are the things that make your girl horny and desperate for sex. They include things like:
A feeling of wanting and being wanted. Being with a guy she finds attractive.
Experiencing intense sexual tension. The right kind of physical foreplay.
Read this article to get the best tips to make her horny. Once you can reliably turn it on, it’s time to get it wet. Getting her wet comes down to using the right technique, which is surprisingly simple.
Cut your nails
It goes without saying, but the last thing you want to do is stick a sharp object that could slice or cut into your vagina. So make sure to trim AND file your nails.
Trimming them is NOT enough. You want to make sure they are short and dull, so there are no sharp edges that could hurt it.
Similarly, make sure the skin on your hands is not rough or bumpy. You can also exfoliate and use some kind of lotion, so that your hands are soft.
7 different ejaculation techniques
You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubricated so it goes in smoothly. Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can cover your finger with her natural wetness before you penetrate her. If not, she tries to lick your finger. The last option is to use lubricant.
As you insert your finger, you should feel your fingertip (that’s the fingerprint area) against the top of the vaginal wall. Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how it responds.
After doing this for up to a minute, slowly pull your middle finger out. Now you are going to insert your middle and ring fingers together.
To make sure you both glide on nicely, you’ll also need to coat your ring finger with its natural moisture… or use sage or lube.
As you slide your index and middle fingers inside her, with your fingers slightly curved around her pubic bone, you will then be pressing on her G-spot area.
If this is your first time trying to make your girl squirt, it’s a good idea to explore a bit with your fingers. Extend them to go a little deeper and then twist them again to take them to a shallower point in her vagina. As you do this, be sure to run your fingertips along the upper wall of her vaginal canal.
By doing so, you’ll be able to feel different textures and surfaces, helping you find exactly where her G-Spot is… Remember, it feels similar to a moist raspberry.
Now it’s time to stimulate her G-Spot and make her squirt! There are several different techniques here, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your child.
1. Press the button: up and down
Just like the name, you will perform the button press techniques by repeatedly pressing your G-spot with your finger as if you were pressing a button, up and down. Experiment and vary how much pressure you apply and how fast you do it. Light pressure may be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.
This pressure can be pleasurable, but not enough to push her over the edge and squirt.
2. Rubbing her G-spot
Rubbing his G-spot in a circular motion while keeping a lot of pressure on the tip of your finger is another option. Again, for some women, this is enough to make them ejaculate, but for others, it just feels good and isn’t enough to make them explode.
Fortunately, the next technique will make ejaculation much easier.
3. Come here Movement
Making a “come here” or “beckoning” motion with your middle and ring fingers will allow the fingertips to pass over your G-spot and provide you with much more stimulation. Again, be sure to experiment with the pressure you will apply and the exact location of where you apply the pressure.
As you curl your fingers, you should apply a lot of pressure to her G-spot. Then, release this pressure as you straighten your fingers. As you start to curve them again, start applying more pressure.
For many women, this is more than enough to make them ejaculate. However, there are two problems that sometimes arise from each of these three techniques:
- You may notice that your fingers and wrist get tired too quickly, even before she is close to orgasm.
- You may not provide enough stimulation to your girl.
That’s why I’ve saved the Arm Shaker for last. It’s pretty much a surefire way to make any woman squirt.
4. The Arm Shaker
Arm Shaker is similar to the previous three techniques, with some important differences. Instead of using your fingers and hand to provide stimulation, you’ll use your entire arm. First, you must keep your fingers firmly in place, with the tips pressed against his G-Spot. Then you must begin to use your whole arm to press on his G-Spot, much more pressure than before.
Do this by keeping your arm fairly stiff as you try to quickly bring it up and down. As your fingers press against her G-Spot, you will be able to provide tremendous amounts of pressure. This is almost guaranteed to make her come.
5. Extra pressure
If for some reason, she still has problems with female ejaculation despite using all the techniques I just taught you. Then you can press Mons Pubis on her, you can do it yourself with the other hand.
Applying pressure like this has the effect of gently squeezing your G-Spot further into your vagina, allowing it to provide more pressure.
My only concern in this position is making sure I don’t apply too much pressure or push too hard. Otherwise, you will put a lot of pressure on her bladder, which will make her feel like urinating, taking her out of the moment.
You can also use this technique during sex if she requires more pressure on her G-Spot.
6. Clitoris and G-spot
Now is the time to combine forces to double your pleasure. With one hand, you will use some of the techniques I described earlier to rub her clitoris while you use the other hand to penetrate her and massage her G-Spot. You will be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and out.
If one of your hands is pressing on her mons, have her rub her clit while you caress her G-spot. When you play with her own clit, she can experience a wider variety of positions, some of which may be more comfortable for you or her. They allow you to stimulate your G-spot for longer.
If you find that your girl likes to squirt and you want to try new ways to do it, then using sex toys is the perfect option. Penis shaped dildos and vibrators can work great, but you should be on the lookout for purpose made G Spot vibrators and dildos that will stimulate your G Spot and make you ejaculate easier. These toys have curved or contoured heads that are designed specifically for G-spot stimulation and do most of the work for you.
Improve and listen to your partner
If you follow my techniques correctly, you will be able to make most women squirt with ease. Of course, not all women enjoy all the techniques I’ve just taught you. To know what she likes AND what she needs to make her cum, you need to know her opinion…
Body language: The first way to get feedback from her is to observe her facial and body language when you are using these techniques on her.
If his eyes are rolling to the back of his head, he’s making an “O” with his mouth and he’s screaming with pleasure, then you’re clearly doing everything right.
However, if his face looks frustrated, bored, or neutral and he’s not making a sound, then he may not be enjoying it as much, and you may need to change your technique slightly. Sometimes the sounds of pain and pleasure can be quite similar.
Communication: Talking to her and getting some specific information is crucial. If you have a fragile ego, this can be difficult, BUT it will make you a better lover. If you both have an open and nonjudgmental attitude, this is quite easy.
Good communication is the best way to quickly improve in all aspects of your love life.
You can get feedback on the spot by asking him if he likes something you’re doing or if he prefers a different technique. You can (and probably should) talk about sex outside of the bedroom, too. Here you will have help in this guide to talk about sex with your lover.
Difficult problems during ejaculation
Learning to make your girl squirt can be a difficult thing. Some couples find it super easy, while others find it nearly impossible. This list of possible problem solutions should help you identify and solve all the main problems that may be affecting your ability to make your girl come.
1. She wants to squirt, but nothing happens
Your girl wants to ejaculate, so one or both of you set out to stimulate her G-spot and make it happen. She is comfortable and aroused, and feels the need to urinate. You’re in the shower or you’ve put a towel on the bed, so he doesn’t care if she pees (or doesn’t care as long as she feels fine). But nothing happens.
What’s up with that?
The simple answer is that the urethra needs to be open for her to ejaculate. So if she has her fingers, penis, or toy inside her vagina, she could be blocking her urethra and preventing female ejaculation.
The solution is simple…
Once you feel your orgasm or ejaculation building up, simply withdraw whatever is inside her to let your ejaculate flow freely.
If it helps, you can also push with your PC muscles (the same ones used for Kegel exercises) to squirt more/more/more.
Pushing is key to your squirting technique.
2. She has to pee and doesn’t want to go any further.
His G-spot is right next to his bladder. This means that when you press on his G-Spot, you can indirectly apply pressure to his bladder. Also, swelling of your G-spot due to arousal can contribute to this sensation.
Also, when you squirt, the fluid comes out of your urethra, the same tube that your urine comes out of, which many women feel like they’re urinating, even when they’re squirting.
If he’s trying to hold back what he thinks is pee, he won’t be able to ejaculate.
The pressure on the bladder will naturally make anyone feel like they need to urinate. Try now, pressing on her stomach, below her navel to see what I’m talking about.
There are a few ways to deal with this feeling:
- You must get him to pee before sex so that his bladder is empty.
- Make her try to come alone or in the shower. This way, there will be less pressure on her to squirt, and if she’s in the shower, it means everything will wash off quickly anyway.
- Talk to her about it, so she knows why she feels like she needs to pee even though she’s going to ejaculate.
- If she’s concerned about bedwetting, you can throw a towel or sex blanket on the bed to help her feel more secure.
3. He gets very wet but he doesn’t ejaculate like in the movies
If you watch porn, then you will have seen videos where the girl throws a long stream into the air.
The problem with this is that it is often false. If you look closely, the liquid comes out of her vagina and has just been put there so she can expel it.
Some women may ejaculate a larger amount of fluid, which includes fluid from the bladder. But this is the exception and not the rule.
Most women squirt less and it’s usually not as strong. Also, many women simply squirt small amounts of fluid instead of squirting fluid.
So if you accurately follow my advice and your girl never seems to squirt, but instead gets wet and dripping or leaking, then don’t get frustrated! This may be as close as you can get to ejaculation or it may come so far that neither of you even notice!
4. Other matters
There could be a few different issues here…
She doesn’t want to ejaculate: She may not like the idea of ejaculating and that may be a slight to her. This could be because she thinks it’s dirty, it’s pee, it’s embarrassing, or she may associate some other negative emotion with hers.
In some cases, you can talk to her openly and nonjudgmentally about it to try to help her see squirting as an erotic and sexy act. But, if this doesn’t work, there is very little you can do and the more you push her to try to ejaculate, the less likely it is to happen.
Wrong Technique: You may not be giving her the stimulation she needs to squirt. The remedy here is to talk to her and experiment with different techniques to discover what she needs. You can even ask him to show you what he wants.
She doesn’t know her body: she may not know what kind of stimulation she needs to come. This is especially true if she has never ejaculated before. In this case, she may have to try masturbating on her own for this to happen or the two of you can experiment together with different techniques, variations, and combinations to find out what works.
She is not hot enough: if she is stressed, tired, angry or if her mind is elsewhere, then she will have trouble even getting aroused, which will make getting aroused impossible.
She needs to be crazy excited. It’s that simple.
Physical problem that prevents ejaculation: If you can’t achieve a feminine, it may be that you have an injury (to your urethra, for example) or a condition that prevents you from ejaculating or even receiving pleasure from G-spot stimulation. No matter how intentional is to learn how to make it squirt, it may not be possible.
Some combination of the above problems: Usually the reason why you are struggling to squirt is not clear, and is actually a combination of the above factors. Once you identify it, then it’s about tackling each problem to make it easier and easier for her.
Learn other amazing techniques to drive her crazy
Making her ejaculate can be fantastic for both you and your partner, and now you know exactly how to do it.
Not all women like squirts. So if you have an obsession with making your girl squirt while she’s turned off by the idea, then it’s going to be a problem if you keep trying to make it happen.
If that’s the case with your relationship, then my advice is to check out some of the other techniques like licking her pussy, touching her, and trying some of these techniques to get her to orgasm.