A Complete Beginner’s Guide to Erotic Spanking

Instead of breaking up and going for the spanking and risking a woman getting mad at you, you should read these tips on how and when to spank the right way.

Spanking during sexual intercourse is very exciting, especially for women. It is also a natural act that men tend to do when they have their woman from behind.

It is exciting, fun, primitive, and increases sexual pleasure during sex

However, this is not something as easy as it seems, and if you are one of those men who do not know how or when to spank women and want to do it well, I will tell you here.

Because if you make a mistake and smack her butt too hard, you can create a very awkward moment, which also ruins your chances of getting back together with her.

Why do women like to be hit?

You may be wondering why spanking feels good. You’re probably thinking, “but wouldn’t it hurt?” Perhaps, you have never been hit during sex, so it is easy to understand your doubts about why you do not want to hit a woman.


But there’s actually a reason spanking a woman feels so incredible. Not only is there that primal feeling about it, but spanking actually causes just the right amount of pain that releases endorphins and dopamine into her system as a means of numbing the pain.

However, we are not just looking to get rid of pain. Since dopamine and endorphins are the “feel good” hormones, what a spanking can make a woman happy.

These chemicals that are normally present when we feel happy are also released whenever we feel pain, which means that yes, spanking is painful, but it also makes us feel great!

How and when should you spank her

Now, you can’t just spank women and expect everyone to enjoy it. There are certain things you have to do, and certain ways you have to do them, to achieve a pleasurable experience and correctly spank a woman.

Spanking can be really sexy, fun, and adds a new level to your sex life that you’re probably missing out on, but only if you do it the right way. If you want to try this with your partner and see if you like spanking women, you’ll need to know when and how to do it right.


The when

Knowing when you can spank a woman is one of the most important things about spanking her. If you do it at the wrong time, you may completely fail to create that sexy mood and may actually make her not want sex anymore.

Tips for spanking a woman

1. when you are behind her

Being behind a woman during sex and not spanking her is an opportunity to have fun. If you have her from behind and you feel like spanking her, you should because there really isn’t going to be a more appropriate time.

Spanking in other positions can work, but none are as accessible as when you’re behind her and her booty goes up in the air. This is the perfect time to spank her the right way.

2. When they ask you to do it

Some women know exactly what they want from you and will tell you to spank them. This is really all you need, because if she needs it then you should do it.

3. After talking about limits

Depending on how far you’re willing to go on the topic of spanking, there may be some limits to think about. If the two of you are on a date and you both know the sex is going to get intense, you should always push your limits with her before you spank her.

Talk to her about the kind of sex she’s going to have, and if she wants the sex to be rough, then you know what to do.


4. During role play

If you’re role-playing in certain scenarios, spanking makes a lot of sense. Whether you’re the teacher and she’s the naughty failing student or she’s a prisoner and you’re her guard, spanking can be a natural way to add reality to the various scenarios you try out.

5. During some heavy foreplay

Do not start foreplay by spanking a woman unless you have been with her and already know that she likes it. But if you get into some steamy, heavy foreplay, it’s the perfect opportunity for you to bang her. It will increase her desires and make her want you even more.

The how

Now that you know when spanking a woman is a good thing, you need to learn how to do it. Because it’s not just about whipping her and that’s it, you’re the best lover in the world. No!

1. Rub the area before and after spanking

It is not only a small suggestion, but it also relieves the pain in the area after spanking and makes it even more pleasurable. This is also an attractive way to transition to other positions or give yourself a break between positions.

Caressing her butt before and after spanking her is something that creates pleasure, don’t forget that.

2. Start light

Starting with hard spanking may seem like a good idea because you are so anxious, but you should always start as light as possible. Not only will this increase the tension and sexual desire on your part, but it can also turn a woman on much more.


3. Make your way and gauge their reaction

Now that you’ve started lightly, you can proceed to give it some good hits. But in order to spank women the right way, you always have to gauge their reaction and know when it’s too much and when they want more.

Pay attention to how tense they are and even to their facial expression. Any excessive amount of tension and a pained expression on her face will tell you to go softer and not hit her as hard.

4. Do it spontaneously but don’t surprise her

If you’re spanking your girl, she should be surprised by your spanking, but you shouldn’t confuse her by spanking her unannounced. This can also have a lot to do with the weather and how hard you’re spanking it. Therefore, choose an opportune moment and keep the pressure at a medium level.

5. Behave confident and demanding

Spanking a woman should not be done with a timid and doubtful hand. You have to trust your spanking and your demands. You should take on a whole new persona when you start spanking women.

Confidence will also take all the tension and anticipation to the next level. When a man who is in charge and demanding starts hitting a woman, she will abide by whatever rules he tells her. She will also feel safer in the hands of a man who acts as if she knows what she is doing.


Some care after spanking

After spanking, it is important for the couple to take some time after sex. Which means taking care of her and treating her like a princess, from hugging her to giving your nina a glass of water.

Essentially, it means taking time to take care of each other; It’s especially important after BDSM , but it’s also a good idea after any other type of sex.

I always recommend paying attention to your partner after sex. Especially when you want to become a Sex Master. But this is only one aspect of being a Master of Sex. Do you want to know how to be a better man in bed? Find out here.

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