In life we are not exempt from liking another person despite having a partner or a serious relationship. It is quite normal for people to appear around our lives that we have liked at a certain point and not have the slightest idea of how to act in these situations. Did you meet someone you liked a lot from the past and now wants to be with you, but you’re not alone? Did you meet someone who attracts you a lot sexually and are you thinking about it? Do you not know how to choose between living a moment of passion or being faithful and letting the opportunity pass? Ok, let’s work this to find a solution. In general rules if our actions do not hurt anyone then we are not committing a bad act, but what does this have to do with it? The cost/benefit: Eyes that do not see heart that does not feel and if they get to see? Millions of people know how infidelity feels or could feel and everyone knows that it hurts, if our infidelity can do so much damage to our partner, wouldn’t it be better to avoid it? The cost of passion when being unfaithful can be quite high, because we run the risk that our partner leaves us, that everyone finds out and go on to be judged or, that everything comes to us. Let’s see the different cases that may be happening to you: CASE 1: That person arrives that you had always liked, but who had never given you the opportunity to be together. Being this case, you have to always put your partner in front, Well, if the person who is looking for you now never wanted to have anything with you and your partner has always been by your side, why risk everything for a person who truly does not care about you? It may be that you are a whim for this person, since there are selfish humans who feel the need to be loved and desired by someone who does not interest them, and by losing interest in it, they worry and return to you to activate that flame that you have always felt On the other hand, it could also be that this person wants to prove the power that he has over you or he simply realized that he had lost someone that he was not prepared to lose. Could this be the case? In any case, we advise you to put distance and respect the relationship you have always had, since this can be affected in many ways even though your partner does not know about it. CASE 2: In cases where you were never rejected but you never found out that that person liked you, isn’t it more important to value your current relationship than having sex with someone you like? If not, you should leave your partner, since if you don’t feel that respect for avoiding sleeping with other people, it shouldn’t mean much to you. So, leave the person you’re with first and then hook up with the person you really like. While it is true that many times we did not know that the person we also liked could like us, we must have a certain limit if we have a relationship, because this can damage it in every way, and also, we can be romantically involved with someone without wanting it. In any case, we invite you to reflect on the importance of the person you are with. CASE 3: You are starting your relationship and you start to feel attracted to someone else: Before jumping off the cliff, think first, why do you like this other person? Is it something sexual or emotional? If you are sexual, analyze the situation. Is your current partner respectful, affectionate and considerate? If your current partner makes you feel good emotionally and what you feel for the other person is only physical, the most prudent thing to do is to try to control your hormones. However, if the attraction you feel is emotional, then your current relationship is lacking. Is it worth working with your current partner to achieve mutual emotional satisfaction? Or have you already realized that it is better to try to feel good with someone else? Think that in any case what starts badly does not always end well, so if your relationship is starting badly, there is nothing negative about closing that door and opening another. CASE 4: You have been with your partner for too long and someone else catches your attention: Since you know the type of relationship you have and the person who is your partner, you should use a scale to ask yourself: What good things does my current partner have? Do I still love my partner in the same way? Do I still want my partner? What things should I improve with my partner? What are the negative and positive points of it? In addition, You can establish pros and cons that give you a concrete answer for your next movements. In addition, it will help you discover if what you feel for the new person is real or if you are covering up the shortcomings that you have in your current relationship. We also recommend that you make a mental list of these things: What benefit can cheating on my partner have? Is it worth throwing the wedding all the time I’ve been with this person for someone else? Is this a passing wish or am I really interested in this new person? What can I lose if I cheat on her? What can I gain if I cheat on her? Why am I attracted to someone else if I have a good relationship? Think about your partner, if she felt like you. What would you say? How would you feel? Would you think that she doesn’t love you anymore? Do you love your partner? Do you consider that avoiding sleeping with someone else is a way of being selfish with yourself or a way of showing emotional strength, self-control, love and respect? Would you forgive your partner if they did the same? If infidelity can hurt someone, don’t you think that this is why infidelity is something negative in life? The decision is yours and we advise you to meditate and think before jumping into the water for something that may not be worth it in the near future. love and respect? Would you forgive your partner if they did the same? If infidelity can hurt someone, don’t you think that this is why infidelity is something negative in life? The decision is yours and we advise you to meditate and think before jumping into the water for something that may not be worth it in the near future. love and respect? Would you forgive your partner if they did the same? If infidelity can hurt someone, don’t you think that this is why infidelity is something negative in life? The decision is yours and we advise you to meditate and think before jumping into the water for something that may not be worth it in the near future.