When we are in a relationship, we expect another person to be faithful just for the simple fact that we are, and most of the time we don’t talk about it, we take it for granted and then we are surprised when it happens. People think that the main ingredients of a relationship are security and interest, so when you notice that the person is no longer interested in you, you are wasting time trying to retain him, because now you have become the second course, in the substitute, in the lighted candle in case the other goes out, but you don’t have the courage to tell her for fear of ending the relationship. It is necessary to understand that love is not what one feels, but what one does with what one feels. It is difficult to say goodbye to the person you love, but love is not forced, and being the second option is never good,
We are clear that there will always be someone better than us and our partner, someone smarter, more successful, more handsome, with a better body, with more money, etc., and being interested in a person with more qualities than your current partner is not always It implies having stopped loving the person, but you need to learn to distinguish what your heart feels to make the right decision. There are many people who think the opposite, that the fact that your partner has noticed someone else, is a sign that love has ended, so they prefer to tell the couple “if that time has come when someone else called your attention, please, do not choose me”. The time has come when I am not enough and you want more, do not choose me because you feel guilty, because you know I deserve more, don’t choose me just because you’re afraid it won’t work out with someone else, don’t choose me just because we’ve been together for a long time. I have discovered you texting even when you are with me, I have noticed that you are looking the other way, perhaps thinking that you would rather be with her than with me, you have said her name when you are with me, perhaps you love her more than me you want me If after all this time you’re not sure it’s me you want to be with, don’t try any more, just go. It’s not your fault that I love you more than you deserve, that’s my decision. I do not want to be with someone who is not sure that I am the person he wants to be with, better go and give me the opportunity to meet someone else, someone better than you, someone who is one hundred percent sure of choosing me. my every day Choose the other person, because I do not deserve to be an option, I will not fight someone else for your love, not because I do not want to fight for your love, but because you have stopped loving it. If you really loved me, I would always be your first choice. So please, if there’s someone who comes between us, don’t bother thinking, choose her. If you are in doubt of who to be with, it is not me, I am not the right person, I am not one more option, one must be sure of what he wants, with whom he wants to spend his days and nights. If you’ve doubted me, then I’m not the one you should choose, I couldn’t spend the rest of my life with someone who was always wondering if I was the right choice. Love is being sure of someone, not competing with someone else for someone else’s love. If you fell in love with me with the good and the bad, but you have discovered that you don’t love me anymore, you can’t live with that doubt (neither can I). To love is to surrender body and soul, beyond doubts and fears. I can’t live thinking who makes you happier, if she or I, if I’m the right choice, if I’m what you expected or if she’s better, if you’re happy with me or you’ll be happier with someone else. Be clear that I’m not a choice, I’m the best I can be, and if that’s not enough, if there are things you don’t like about me and you found them in someone else, stay with that other person. Couple relationships are not simple, things cannot be cataloged or pretend to make a common pattern with different types of behavior. For example, “like”, “want” or “love” are not the same. This is why it is not impossible that one can love or love a third person, and still love the first person, in which case it is difficult to make a decision, because one must take into account that there are things that can weigh, such as the years. lived together, the properties in common, whether or not there are children, etc. Even this decision is very personal, there are people who prioritize love or passion over everything else, and who have such a deep sense of responsibility that instead of listening to their heart they decide to continue with the commitment previously made. To conclude, let’s think about the phrase that says “If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first, you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second.” Each couple has their circumstances and there are three important points to reflect on: 1. Not everyone who lives as a couple does so out of love; 2. Not everyone who falls in love with a second person stops loving the first person and 3. Not everyone who falls in love with a second person and no longer loves the first person has the courage to change their life. Let us consider that we cannot generalize couple relationships, if as individual beings we are unique and unrepeatable, couple relationships are too. If you are in this situation, reflect on what is important to you, your values, your beliefs, what you think of true love and decide, always thinking about your well-being. Let us consider that we cannot generalize couple relationships, if as individual beings we are unique and unrepeatable, couple relationships are too. If you are in this situation, reflect on what is important to you, your values, your beliefs, what you think of true love and decide, always thinking about your well-being. Let us consider that we cannot generalize couple relationships, if as individual beings we are unique and unrepeatable, couple relationships are too. If you are in this situation, reflect on what is important to you, your values, your beliefs, what you think of true love and decide, always thinking about your well-being.
