The mind of human beings is so complex, it is impressive to know the number of tastes and preferences that each one has. In the past, you could count on the fingers of your hands the forms of attraction by which one individual fell in love with another. It is not that others did not exist, simply the different attractions that exist had not been studied and classified as they are now. Lately the word sapiosexual is heard a lot, but what does it mean exactly? The word is derived from the English “sapiosexual” which was erected from the Latin voice “sapiens” which means “wisdom” plus the word “sexual” to refer to sexual attraction. Sapiosexual is a neologism, which has been used in our language to refer to that person who feels sexually attracted to the intelligence of another individual. We know that some neurochemicals such as dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine play an important role when falling in love; But what is it that makes us look at one person and not another? It is so difficult to answer that question and no one has the exact answer. What we do know is that the cultural component plays a very important role when two people talk for the first time. People fall in love with people around them, it also has a lot to do with the disposition to fall in love and the moment. Others usually give a lot of importance to physical attractiveness, for others the economic position is everything, others look for people who lead a relaxed lifestyle and others like people who like to have fun all the time, In conclusion, there is no specific formula when it comes to falling in love. In this text we will talk about people who are specifically attracted by the intellectual capacity of others. We tend to be attracted to people with a deep mind, of those that a single conversation is not enough to dispel doubts about their personality. These people do not follow patterns, that is, they do not behave like the rest of the people, they have the ability to function in different areas with an innate capacity; that is, we are attracted by intelligence. This is where the concept of sapiosexuality comes into play. one of those that a single conversation is not enough to dispel doubts about his personality. These people do not follow patterns, that is, they do not behave like the rest of the people, they have the ability to function in different areas with an innate capacity; that is, we are attracted by intelligence. This is where the concept of sapiosexuality comes into play. one of those that a single conversation is not enough to dispel doubts about his personality. These people do not follow patterns, that is, they do not behave like the rest of the people, they have the ability to function in different areas with an innate capacity; that is, we are attracted by intelligence. This is where the concept of sapiosexuality comes into play.
Characteristics that define a sapiosexual person:
They are curious people with a great imagination. – They flee from the superficial. – They are people who are looking for new experiences and are open to new challenges. – They feel a great attraction for deep conversations that stimulate them to think and discuss everything that generates new knowledge. – They feel great attraction to what is new or to what is novel and reject routine. – They feel more aroused by intelligence than by physical contact.
The physical aspect does not seem to be a fundamental factor to feel attracted.
For those who admit to being attracted by the interior, that is, by intellectual capacity, what they are looking for on a first date is to have a conversation about philosophy, biology, politics, anthropology.
The sapiosexual feels stimulated or challenged by the other’s way of thinking. A sapiosexual person falls in love with long interesting talks, with the concept that the other person has regarding everything around him, with the different way he reacts to everyday problems, with the concept he has about fun, with his tastes. They enjoy afternoons or nights sitting on sofas reading books, one next to the other and then having a conversation where the different points of view are analyzed and in the end they end up learning from each other; Another activity that is usually very rewarding for these people is also to sit and watch sunsets or sunrises together and philosophize about it or enjoy a good piano recital, go to the opera, frequent bookstores and libraries together, go to art exhibitions, In short, these are things that for most are boring. The term sapiosexual applies to both men and women, but it has been scientifically proven that it is more predominant in women; When women are asked what attracts them to more than one man, most tend to list intelligence as their number one attraction. While for many men the physical aspect is the first thing they look at before talking to a woman. In the case of women, a relationship can also be established between power and intelligence, because they see in them very self-confident people with very high self-esteem; then that gives them the security and protection they need for their lives. Although this is not always the case, especially today when women have achieved greater independence and are more confident. Whose case has nothing to do with obtaining security, protection or economic status, rather with the fact that he is able to stimulate his brain to turn on his appetite or sexual desire through a fascinating conversation that seduces his feminine mind. In men, what characterizes them most are new experiences, breaking with tradition, they can spend long hours talking, but only if she is able to interest or excite him, that demonstrates an intelligence worthy of admiration. A sapiosexual man will find it difficult to tolerate you if you only want to talk about your physique or trivial things. Some have the misconception that only physically unattractive people can be sapiosexual, but that is far from true since there are many people with a great physique who are very intelligent, The way to recognize this type of person is through their lexicon since they usually use words that very few understand. You don’t need to be gifted, it’s just that they always care about constantly improving their intellect. They don’t like trite things like giving roses or chocolates, they always go above and beyond so I assure you that they will surprise you. For them there is no more erotic organ than the brain.
