In the field of intimate relationships, everything is allowed, as long as the desire of each one is not violated and, of course, that it is pleasant for both parties. Oral sex is one of the most used techniques, both in new couples and in those who have been together for a long time. It can be developed in the context of a “quickie” or in the context of something longer. Its variants are endless and its tricks and secrets too. In particular, men enjoy it in a special way and it is usually one of the experiences that they most mention as pleasant. Sometimes, when the woman is the one giving oral sex to the man, a small problem can arise: if he is able to delay her ejaculation a lot, he can be laborious and extremely tiring for her.
Little problems
It is not because I am against long foreplay, because of ill will or lack of desire, it is simply something physical: the jaw starts to hurt, the hands get tired or, in extreme cases, the woman simply gets bored. On other occasions, the posture also plays against the woman. In addition, there is another component to consider: it does not hurt to speed up the process a bit to help the man; this way, they can recover quickly and continue the party.
Therefore, it is necessary to find a way for them to reach orgasm when you want it, these are some techniques that you can use.
1- Raise his excitement, before going to his member, take your time with the foreplay to get him excited. If his penis is completely flaccid, you’ll have to start from scratch; In this case, you must know his tastes to know what he likes more. Some love sexy lingerie, an erotic dance, a sensual massage or bawdy words. Nibbling his neck and ears for a while is always a good start and if you accompany him with risque words, anticipating what will come, even more so.
2- The man’s testicles are very sensitive, so you should also take advantage of this circumstance. Many girls concentrate on the penis and the glans, but a few magical touches with your tongue on the testicles, you will achieve magic. By moving from the glans to the testicles, you can give your jaw a break and you can even use your hands.
3- Since you are in that area, don’t forget to play with the perineum, which is the place between the testicles and the anus. It’s extremely sensitive, so whatever you do around there will surely speed everything up.
4- The anus is a hypersensitive area, although it is loaded with many connotations of homosexuality and for this reason, many men dislike women snooping around there. If your partner has no prejudices and likes this, success is assured.
5- Of course, you must have a lot of saliva for oral sex and even if you resort to using your hands and fingers. You can also use a flavored lubricant, so there will be no friction problems with your hands and you will be able to take care of his testicles without having problems.
6- Using the hands also admits subtleties. Instead of using all your fingers, try using just your thumb and ring finger to wrap around his member, while wrapping your mouth around the rest. By using your hands and mouth, you will be able to cover more surface area and give your jaw a break, replacing it with your hands. And don’t forget that while you suck or lick the penis, you can use your hands and fingers to caress the buttocks.
7- Your silence can be perceived by your partner as you do not like what you are doing and will automatically lower his level of excitement. If you emit moans and words of pleasure they will be well received and will also increase their own desire. Do not forget the dirty words, many love to hear them.
8- If it seems to you that everything is going too slow, try changing speeds: going from fast to slow or alternating, is a good measure and usually gives a lot of results.
9 -Of course, do not overdo it: do not forget that the penis, the testicles and the surrounding areas are very sensitive and careless nibbling can be counterproductive.
10- Alternate licking with suction: the effect of both combined is very powerful.
11- A good trick to rest your jaw and that will also serve to raise his excitement, is to use other parts of the body to stimulate the member, such as the face or your breasts. Remember not to do it with strong blows.
12- When using your hands, be careful with your nails, any disproportionate pain will cause “everything to fall”.
13- Pay attention to signals of pleasure. If he grabs your head to stop you or to hurry you up, it’s because he gets more pleasure that way. While surprise can go a long way, sometimes it’s better to play it safe.
14- A very pleasant sensation for the man is the complete introduction of his member in your mouth, as if you were going to eat him. If you do it once and notice that you enjoy it, persist, the end may be very close.
15- Do not underestimate the importance of the look so that he reaches pleasure. Just as it is important before, with dances or erotic lingerie, you can stop your task to simply look him in the eye. If he begs you to continue, you are on the right track.
16- If you want everything to be faster, we’ll tell you a little trick: caress him in two erogenous zones at the same time. While you stimulate his penis with your hand, catch his tongue with your lips and suck on it like a delicious piece of candy. Your hands on his member will be very exciting for him, but if at the same time he feels his tongue wrapped around your lips and anticipates what is coming. The effect will be instant.
Go ahead with the tests and enjoy the sex.
