A massage is always a good option to free yourself from the stress accumulated in your body due to the daily routine. But, does your high pace of life not allow you to dedicate time to yourself or your partner? If so, the time has come to remedy and reserve a part of the day for your relationship. Would you dare to surprise him with an erotic massage?

Learning to perform an erotic massage and practicing it as a couple can be the first step to try new things and make your sexual relations more satisfying and fun. One of the most frequent complaints in relationships is the little time devoted to caresses and foreplay, so that they end up becoming monotonous and boring. Start by choosing a suitable music that creates a more intimate and sensual environment, to initiate you in the fabulous world of erotic massages. You will not regret!

Once you have created the ideal environment by lowering the intensity of the light, looking for a pleasant temperature, putting on sexy music, you should have oils and creams on hand. Warm your hands and choose the area where you want to start your massage. Below we detail the different erotic massages that exist:

1. Erotic head massages

The first thing your partner should do is lie on their back, with their head resting on a cushion. In your case, get on your knees behind him and start from the forehead, making a gentle path with your fingers from the nose and go to the hairline, alternating right and left hands. Repeat this movement about 12 times, varying the intensity of the pressure depending on your partner’s wishes. To finish, put the palms of your hands on your temples and hold the position for two minutes.

The caresses you perform in this type of massage stimulate the energy center located behind the forehead, what we call the “third eye”. In this way you will get the tensions to relax, the stress to disappear and a deep feeling of well-being.

The best time to do erotic head massages is early in the afternoon. It is recommended to do it in a very smooth way, since it will be the ideal preamble for another type of massage with a greater erotic charge. Even if you have no experience, this massage is easy to perform, as well as fast, and will allow you to become familiar with mutual physical contact.

One of the things you should keep in mind is that the ear is an ultra-sensitive and highly erogenous area and, once stimulated, it sends an electrical impulse directly to the gut. Take advantage and tickle him with your tongue or with your breath. But beware! Not everyone likes them too close to their ear. So drop him at the first sign of rejection.

Erotic massage is the first prelude to a passionate sexual relationship, so it starts at the head and continues with other preliminaries…

2. Erotic back massages

It is time to practice what is known as Californian massage. Your partner lies face down and you stand at the height of his head, with the palms of your hands on the top of his back. Gently slide your hands down to his buttocks, stretching slightly toward his feet. Press the contour of her buttocks and slide your hands up her sides, then up to her armpits, before pulling her shoulders up slightly and returning to the starting position. Repeat this movement increasing the pressure at the same time. Don’t forget to synchronize your gestures with your partner’s breathing: go up when you breathe in, go down when you breathe out.

With this massage you will get the muscular tensions to vanish under the effects of the enveloping movements. Another advantage is that this massage revives the sensitivity of the skin. Your boy will be even more receptive to your caresses!

The best time to do an erotic back massage is after a hard day at work, when you feel very stressed or tired. Relaxation and awakening of desire guaranteed!

3. Erotic massages on the chest

The “masseur” stands to the right of his partner, at the level of his hips. The hands must be on the pectorals or breasts, wrapping them well. Next, he proceeds to make 3 circular movements: clockwise for the right breast, counterclockwise for the left and, continuing to make these circles, he moves the breasts closer and further away. Then slide your fingers from the nipple to the outside of the breast and gently knead the skin varying the pressure. To finish in a more erotic way, use your mouth and don’t hesitate to kiss his chest directly.

The chest and belly are among the most sensitive parts of the body, because the skin around the collarbone is very thin, making it very receptive to caresses. On the other hand, for both women and men, the chest is a secondary erogenous zone which, once caressed, leads to the arousal of the primary zones (sexual organs).

The best time to perform this type of massage is when you feel that your libido is at half mast. 30 minutes of sensual chest massage should be enough to arouse the fiery lovers in you. Why not use a feather or a brush to caress your partner’s chest? These aerial instruments will make you shiver with pleasure.

Also, you should keep in mind that, well stimulated, the breasts can even make you reach orgasm. 24% of the women surveyed declare that they can reach orgasm just by caressing their breasts. And, in any case, it’s a great way to start a sexual relationship. After this massage, there will surely be a few of these sexual positions.

4. Erotic massages in the arms

Sit next to your boy, take his left hand and put your right hand on his palm, fingers pointing towards his shoulder. He traces gently from her wrist to his elbow, before sliding back down his arm. Repeat it twice. Next, he places both parallel hands on his forearms and moves up to his shoulder with even pressure. He descends again, relaxing the pressure. He repeats this gesture several times. To finish, put his right hand between yours and massage his palm with your thumbs, then slide your index finger between his fingers. Do the same with your right arm.

Why is this erotic massage so good? We often forget it, but the arm is home to many erogenous zones, especially the elbows (in the inner crease), the fists and the hands. We rarely caress these parts of the body, which are particularly sensitive to massage. See for yourself: a good massage in these areas will give your partner an intense sensation of pleasure.

The best time to do erotic massages on the arms is when you feel that the routine invades your partner and that daily physical contacts are less and less frequent. The arm massage will make you discover the hands and shoulders of the other and will highlight certain areas of the body that you normally have forgotten, reserved for the simple banal gestures of everyday life. To make the massage more spicy, pass your tongue between his fingers and kiss him when you reach the tip.

You must bear in mind that, due to its symbolic meaning (they protect and pamper), the erotic massage in hands and arms reinforces the feelings within the couple, unites you more.

5. Erotic massages on the buttocks

Your partner lies on their stomach and you sit just below their butt, straddling them. Put the palms of your hand on your buttocks and massage them with increasingly wide circular movements. Increase the pressure. Go next to the right buttock; put your hands on it and, with the help of your thumbs, form a “roll” with the skin and trace it up to the coccyx. Alternate right buttock with left.

Why is this erotic massage so good? Because, for both men and women, this is an area of ​​a highly erotic character. In addition, in the case of men, the points of stimulation that excite the prostate and the production of testosterone are located around the coccyx, near the anus.

The best time to do erotic massages on the buttocks is when you feel confident enough with your partner to let him look at and massage your buttocks in full light. To avoid on first dates!

Another option you can try is to change tools! Instead of your hands, put your arms on his buttocks and make circular movements, from the outside to the inside. Outcome? Wider caresses and more intense pressure. If light caresses with the fingertips are enough to stimulate the thighs and buttocks, when they are more muscular, it is better to apply a vigorous massage. And, if you are curious, eliminate taboos and try annilingus, one practice at a time. more common and highly pleasurable.

Massaging this area is the perfect preliminary to practicing anal sex. The pleasure helps to dilate the anus and, with the help of lubricant or saliva, you will be able to create the perfect environment for this practice that is as erotic as it is conventional. Here are a few positions for anal sex that will fire your imagination.

Fuente: http://www.enfemenino.com/sexualidad/como-hacer-masajes-eroticos-s1515415.html

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