Many women may have been victims of the situation that I am going to tell you about, it is about that moment where the man disappears, yes, he is not a ghost but he knows how to disappear. At first I took it as an isolated event, that I had been the one “raffled” with episodes like this, but later (although not knowing whether to take it as a consolation) I realized that unfortunately it is a situation that happens in a very common way and It can happen to any woman. It doesn’t matter what kind of woman she is; tall, short, skinny, plump, with black or blonde hair, how old she is, whether she has money or not, the type of relationship is not even taken into account. Anyone can fall victim to a man who leaves without saying goodbye. The word goodbye has a fairly broad meaning, it is made up of only five letters but it can have many meanings, Of course, to know that you must also place yourself in the context. Normally this word is used as a farewell, but many times it may not have that meaning, that already depends on who says it and how they do it. But in the other case, what happens when a man decides to leave without saying goodbye? There may be some hope if he leaves some clues to be found, but if he erases all kinds of traces, things get pretty serious.
What is “Ghosting”?

Beyond the fact that there are many excuses to end a relationship, such as the typical “it’s not you, it’s me” or “we should take some time” or “let’s be friends”, among other phrases, there is also what in English is calls ghosting, which can be translated as “playing the ghost”. Basically this refers to the act in which the person simply disappears from the relationship, and although this phenomenon is not something that has been discovered or started recently, it is something that is becoming increasingly popular throughout the world. In a YouGov/Huffington Post survey of 1,000 people, 10 percent admitted their relationship ended that way. Normally, young people between 18 and 29 years old are the ones who experience the most “ghosting”. According to a survey conducted by Collins and Gillath,
Modern relationships It

must be admitted that globalization has changed many things, it even had repercussions on relationships. It has given rise to a modern culture of relationships, where ghosting or disappearance or whatever you want to call it, becomes more frequent. It can happen after the first date, after months of dating, or even after several years of being with your partner. It is simply erased, leaving no explanation. As painful as it is to admit, this is a reflection of an increase in low-commitment relationships. This practice is very fashionable in social networks mainly.
The man who leaves without saying goodbye

Imagine this situation, you are at a party sharing with a person whom you met in the place. Everything seems to be going well, you know he was in that place but for one of those reasons he vanishes from the place, he disappears without saying goodbye, he just leaves. You ask those around you and nobody saw anything and then you realize that it was not a joke. Indeed, the person has left and without saying goodbye! Although it is somewhat uncomfortable and you see it as a rude act, he had no obligation to you and instead of telling you something, he simply preferred to “delete”. But the situation becomes very different when the one who decides to disappear is the person who shared many things with you, part of his life in several years of courtship. In simpler terms, hit another way when it comes to that partner with whom you planned dreams, goals, desires, bad, good and wonderful moments, of the one who dried your tears in difficult moments and who was with you in bed many nights. It hurts more because when the relationship is taken seriously, it can be considered as a contract, where the other person can leave whenever he wants, but he should at least consider saying goodbye before doing so. We are not talking precisely about contractual terms, such as explaining the reason why the person is leaving, or a prior notice, or similar things, it is simply communicating the decision not to continue. I usually hear from time to time, women who say that after a wonderful day, their partner disappears as if by magic, it is deleted without even leaving a message explaining the reason. Making each of them seek to recreate the scenes, trying to find some gesture or some word that has motivated him to disappear out of nowhere. But there is a reality in this action on the part of man, many of them do not like confrontations, they do not know how to say goodbye or it simply causes them fear, that is why they prefer to leave everything aside and escape from that uncomfortable situation. Within the conversations by the women who were victims of this abandonment, a striking detail must also be rescued, and that is that they do not miss the sexual gifts or the romanticism that the disappeared men could offer. What really hurts is feeling used and discarded, the wound goes directly to the ego. They don’t know how to say goodbye or it simply causes them fear, that’s why they prefer to leave everything aside and escape from that uncomfortable situation. Within the conversations by the women who were victims of this abandonment, a striking detail must also be rescued, and that is that they do not miss the sexual gifts or the romanticism that the disappeared men could offer. What really hurts is feeling used and discarded, the wound goes directly to the ego. They don’t know how to say goodbye or it simply causes them fear, that’s why they prefer to leave everything aside and escape from that uncomfortable situation. Within the conversations by the women who were victims of this abandonment, a striking detail must also be rescued, and that is that they do not miss the sexual gifts or the romanticism that the disappeared men could offer. What really hurts is feeling used and discarded, the wound goes directly to the ego.

It may be due to fear, it may be due to immaturity, lack of manliness, etc., but finally the conclusion is reached that it is nothing more than a hypothesis, that is, there is no concrete explanation for this behavior. It may even be a lack of education, since when a person arrives they should say hello, and say goodbye when they leave. GOODBYE is only a five-letter word, but if it is not said at the right time, it can cause a huge stir in the mind, but it is not only about days, even this confusion can last for months or years.

Never go without saying goodbye, because you can greatly hurt the person who gave you the best moments of his life. Face things with courage and if the situation no longer gives for more, you must have the courage to say “so far we come”, thank and say goodbye accordingly.

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