One of the greatest goals of the human being is to achieve prosperity, both material and immaterial things, and this is achieved when you are true to yourself, when you follow the path of your heart, whatever it takes and despite the fact that others do not have confidence in you. Regardless of the inconveniences that life puts us in front of, always having fidelity to our dreams, to what we know inside our soul that is what we really want to achieve, because if we are convinced that what we choose to do is irremediably for the that we were born, then let’s just prepare ourselves, with confidence, with love, keeping our hearts clean, making use of the tools that life has given us to fulfill our mission. In order to have a simple and happy life, it is essential to eliminate non-essential things, as this will lead us to know ourselves better, having as a final result, freedom. This simplicity cannot be achieved without honesty, when we are not sincere, we live in an alternative reality, created by ourselves, but in the end it does not correspond to what we really want. When we choose honesty, we can live being coherent, congruent and faithful to our principles and beliefs, to our values, wherever we are and with anyone. There is no situation more difficult than living battling with our interior. when we are not sincere, we live in an alternative reality, created by ourselves, but in the end it does not correspond to what we really want. When we choose honesty, we can live being coherent, congruent and faithful to our principles and beliefs, to our values, wherever we are and with anyone. There is no situation more difficult than living battling with our interior. when we are not sincere, we live in an alternative reality, created by ourselves, but in the end it does not correspond to what we really want. When we choose honesty, we can live being coherent, congruent and faithful to our principles and beliefs, to our values, wherever we are and with anyone. There is no situation more difficult than living battling with our interior.
There are many benefits of being true to yourself, some of the most important are:
– Closer and quality friendships. Honest people attract honest people, greater intimacy and knowledge of the ‘real you’. Being true to yourself will convey to others the idea that you are honest and trustworthy.
– People start to believe in what you say and do. Start by believing in yourself, self-esteem generates inner well-being, which is reinforced by social acceptance. – Welfare. Being true to yourself results in an orderly and uncomplicated life, which is ideal for improving the immune system. Honesty may be related to less tiredness, fewer colds, less depression and anxiety. Self-fidelity is a behavior that we must have at all times, it is knowing yourself and being consistent with what you think, do and say. Most people think that fidelity only refers to the fact of not betraying others, but the most important thing is fidelity with oneself, we can identify those aspects of ourselves that prevent us from doing what we really want,
Values are guides that guide the behavior and life of each individual and each social group towards a more comprehensive life, values are adopted, take shape and meaning. In this sense, when a person has all this set of values, self-knowledge and a defined personality, he can have a clearer path towards self-fidelity. With this way of being we can be able to more effectively fulfill our obligations, be honest and responsible in all aspects of our lives, but above all without betraying our own beliefs and principles. Self-fidelity strengthens our personal relationships, builds us as human beings, helps us to be sincere, trustworthy and encourages us to exercise positive leadership over ourselves; it is a means to strengthen our character,
On the opposite side, we have self-infidelity, which has the consequence of becoming easy to influence by other people, we keep quiet for fear of saying what we really feel, we avoid contradicting the opinions of others and we behave according to the environment indicates it, so as not to be bad with anyone It is impossible to form our own criteria and character, so it is best to stand firm, be authentic even at the cost of the position, opinion or friendship that are at stake.
Coherence with ourselves requires the will to overcome our fear of being different, it also requires self-knowledge to be more firm in our principles. Being consistent with yourself will result in a balanced life full of satisfaction, it is not about having a ‘correct or exemplary’ life to satisfy others with a way of being that does not belong to you at all. The idea is that you feel good about yourself, that your thoughts, your feelings, your words and your actions are the result of what you mean, not what others want you to be. Some recommendations that you can follow to see if you are true to yourself are:
·Examine whether your attitudes and words do not change depending on where and with whom you are. Make sure everyone has the same image and opinion about you.
·Think that the fidelity you demand from others has the same proportion of your self fidelity.
·Be wise in choosing friends, places and events. So you won’t have to hide, lie and behave contrary to your principles.
Do not cheat and always fulfill your obligations. The key to being true to ourselves is self-knowledge, that is, knowing who you are, what your goals in life are, your desires, your true vocation. Ask yourself what gives meaning to your life, you will see that the answer is within you, and once you have found it, go for it, follow your dreams.
If we do not know anything about ourselves, it is impossible to have a true identity, so it is necessary that what we do in life, where we work, with whom we live, etc., is totally balanced with our true self, which is not It leads us to express ourselves with all our intensity. Start by facing your feelings and asking yourself questions such as: what do I like to do? What do I think about such a topic? What do I feel about…? What would I like to achieve? Knowing how to answer these questions is fundamental because it helps to connect with our interior, with our personal essence and has the consequence of getting in touch with our feelings, recognizing them, accepting them and working on them. Reality is a mirror. If all your life you run into negative, inappropriate people, with whom you don’t feel comfortable,
Being honest with ourselves and with others is a virtue that we must cultivate day by day. Pretending to be something we are not requires constant attention to detail, so honesty allows you to relax, because you are yourself and that does not imply any pressure. Sometimes we have been taught that dishonesty can have short-term benefits, it can keep us out of trouble, it can help us get what we want, and we come to believe that it is okay not to be honest with ourselves if it pleases others. Living an honest life requires effort, it requires a decision and actions to reach it, but once it has managed to permeate our interior, it will be easier to practice.