Many men are bad in bed. I have received tons of messages from women complaining about their boyfriends not being good lovers.
Just take a look at the forums. They are full of unsatisfied women.
They penetrate their partner like a crazed rabbit , giving him facials out of the blue, shoving his cock up his ass without warning or falling asleep immediately after orgasm.
These are things you should NOT do.
every woman is different
What do women want in bed?
It’s hard to explain…
There are some women who want soft and romantic sex with some lighted candles. But there are also women who want rough sex, they want to be pulled by the hair and spanked.
Some women want romantic sex.
Some women want rough sex.
Every woman is different.
But how do you know what he wants?
My advice is don’t ask.
It sounds a little weird, but you’ll look like an inexperienced man if you do. So don’t ruin the moment and don’t ask if you’re doing it right.
The other point is that most women don’t even know what they want, or are a little embarrassed to say it. That is why I will explain in this article what almost all women like in bed. These are 8 things that work for almost all women.
And the funny thing is. She will see you as a good lover, because you do most things well.
She won’t vent on a forum or blog, because you’re bad in bed like other losers.
Have fun reading this article and I hope you get the most out of it. Learn and apply it. Those are the keywords here.
1. Get her wet or aroused before entering the room
Never forget the next sentence.
The sex begins outside the room. It begins in a woman’s emotions.
Women don’t have an on/off switch like men. A man can be totally turned on when he sees a naked body. The mind and body do not work this way in a woman.
They need to be emotionally stimulated.
Say something sexual to her and text her what you’re going to do tonight. Touch her in an erogenous zone and kiss her gently on the neck.
You can start two hours before you have sex. And she will be more than ready when the time comes.
2. Don’t give it your all during foreplay
Our brains have two pleasure systems…consuming pleasure and anticipatory pleasure.
Anticipatory pleasure is what we experience when we are in the state of desiring or longing for something (for example, the dopamine rush you get when you see food brought to you in a restaurant).
Consuming pleasure is the kind of pleasure we experience when (you guessed it) we consume what we desire (food, sex, human contact, etc.).
Sexual tension (and much sexual pleasure) is primarily centered around being in a state of anticipation.
So during foreplay, build up the sexual tension by going anywhere other than your girl’s genitals.
For example, if your partner likes to be kissed in the neck/shoulder area, spend a few minutes breathing gently down the nape of the neck, behind the ear, and over the part of the shoulder where the bra strap would normally fall off.
It starts very gently. To start, let your breath and lips do most of the work and simply brush your skin.
Avoid his genitals as much as possible during foreplay.
In the vast majority of her sexual encounters, she spends enough time in the foreplay phase, so when you go to put your fingers between her legs, have no doubt that she will already be completely wet when you touch her.
Remember… when in doubt, slow down, this generates more emotions and you won’t be as predictable.
3. Make noise during sex
One of the most common complaints I hear from my readers is that their partners don’t seem to enjoy sex.
While the figure of a strong, determined and inexpressive man can be attractive on the big screen, in real life women want a man who can be expressive in every way … especially when it comes time to have action in bed. .
Try moaning, bearing down, grunting, or talking dirty more often in bed. It will help you make everything more real, and your partner will appreciate it.
4. Having sex in new places or different parts of the house
Sex… it’s not just reserved for the bedroom!
In the shower, in the washing machine, in the bathroom while getting ready in the morning, next to a hot tub, in your car during a road trip…the options are endless.
A few days ago, a friend of mine told me that recently when his wife was preparing his food, he began to undress her, and of course she never refused and in the end they had the best sex of their lives, so do with that information what you want. want. 😉
5. Actual exercise
Men get an extra boost of testosterone from doing high-intensity exercises. Especially when those workouts require a lot of physical effort (i.e. deadlifts, squats, bench press and pull ups).
Do at least 1-2 high intensity exercise sessions per week and you will notice a positive impact on your sexual performance.
6. Take care of your personal hygiene
Personal hygiene is a must when it comes to being a perfect lover. Spend more time washing yourself in the shower (especially your scalp, armpits, and groin).
Use a mild, unscented, natural soap every day of the week.
For more hygiene tips. Read this article.
7. They want to be dominated (but gentle)
A woman only wants one thing when she’s naked and comfortable…
… that you take control
Women want to be dominated.
A woman wants to feel feminine. Sexual and sensual.
They want to give you their power, as long as you don’t abuse it.
- Take the initiative
- tell him what you want to do
- Beat his ass (gentle)
- Pull her by her hair (gentle)
- Put it against the wall or on the bed
But understand two things friend.
And yes, most women like to be dominated in bed, but beware that you should not maintain this behavior all day.
8. Become a master of falling on her
Many men see oral sex as a brief stop along the way, rather than a very important destination, so they are not interested in honing their skills.
And this is good news for you. Because if you put a little effort into improving your technique, you will put yourself miles ahead of the pack. When you’re done, she’ll be ecstatic, panting and her eyes full of satisfaction, looking at you like you’re a rock star.
make yourselves comfortable Take your time. Find out what he likes, and you will see how you will be a perfect lover.
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