It has happened to many women that we ended a long-term relationship and went through the different stages of mourning until we finally managed to get over the breakup; and one day our ex appears wanting to return. It is a very delicate situation because he confuses us, then the memories of the past return and we begin to lose the balance that we worked so hard to achieve, and then some questions come to our minds such as why just now? Why, when I was so sad and wanted him to talk to me and come back, he didn’t? It is normal that we ask ourselves this and other questions and try to understand what makes a man want to return, we have given ourselves the task of making a small list of some of the reasons that lead a man to want to return. Because he has been left alone again, in this case if it was he who ended the relationship; Somewhere in his mind he keeps that belief that since he was the one who said no more, then you are going to return with him when he asks you to. Or it’s simply because he can’t stand being alone, be very careful because he may think that being with you is better than nothing. Because he wants to control you, if when you were together he always did everything he wanted, how he wanted it and when he wanted it and you never claimed it, then he feels frustrated for not being able to dominate another woman as he did with you and then he remembers how well he was I felt like I was always in control. Controlling men only feel good in a relationship where they have all the control; If this is the case, believe me it was the best thing that could have happened to you and you should never have a relationship like this again for any reason. Stay away as much as you can and avoid having any kind of contact with that person. For sex, we all know that sex is essential for men and that most of them will do anything to have it frequently, also this is one of the biggest reasons why a man returns, if at any time you agree to have sexual relations Again, you will keep coming back because you know you can get it. Many women end up being the lover after having been the wife, in this case you must be very clear that he does not want any commitment with you. In the end, if you are willing to have sex with your ex without commitment, it will be your decision, but remember that you must be mature enough to accept that it is only about sex and nothing else. Because you are prettier than before, Some men want to come back because they realize that we have changed and they are attracted to the person they see now, they are attracted by the maturity or the level of independence that we have achieved, others because of the happiness that you radiate or perhaps just because of how attractive your physical appearance is. ; Whatever it is, they feel attracted and think that since they were together in the past, it will be easy to be together again. Out of jealousy, many times they just want to return to us out of pride, because they see us happy with another man who treats us well and then they want to get us back to appease their ego, or if we have children, they come out with the argument that we cannot rebuild our lives. because they don’t want another man to live under the same roof as their children; It is true that we must be very careful who we bring into our house, but it is not fair that we deprive ourselves of being happy just because the father of our children is selfish, sexist and immature who does not care about our well-being; and even worse when they already have a new relationship, we must remember that jealousy is not always synonymous with love; many times it is selfish (if I am not happy I do not want her to be happy) that attitude leads this type of person on some occasions to feign love all in order to put an end to our happiness. Because as much as they have searched, they do not find anyone like us, there are men who decide to end the relationship because they are not able to realize that they have an exceptional woman by their side who has many qualities that make her one among thousands, So they go from relationship to relationship looking for the woman who has all those characteristics that we possess but they can’t find her, so they want to win us back. We must analyze if it is worth going back, that is if we are single and we still feel something nice for that person, but we must be sure that she is so. He wants to come back because he misses you, we all know that men reach maturity much later than us, and for the same reason, perhaps in a fit of courage he decided to end the relationship, but after a while he realized how much he misses you and how much he misses you. Spending time alone helped him to realize the great love she feels and he regrets having ended the relationship. That is if we are single and we still feel something nice for that person, but we must be sure that it is so. He wants to come back because he misses you, we all know that men reach maturity much later than us, and for the same reason, perhaps in a fit of courage he decided to end the relationship, but after a while he realized how much he misses you and how much he misses you. Spending time alone helped him realize the great love he feels and he regrets having ended the relationship. That is if we are single and we still feel something nice for that person, but we must be sure that it is so. He wants to come back because he misses you, we all know that men reach maturity much later than us, and for the same reason, perhaps in a fit of courage he decided to end the relationship, but after a while he realized how much he misses you and how much he misses you. Spending time alone helped him realize the great love he feels and he regrets having ended the relationship. but after a while he realized how much he misses you and how much he misses you. Spending time alone helped him realize the great love he feels and he regrets having ended the relationship. but after a while he realized how much he misses you and how much he misses you. Spending time alone helped him realize the great love he feels and he regrets having ended the relationship.
Regardless of the reason why our ex wants to return, there are several issues that we must analyze before making a decision: One of them is the way in which the relationship ended, if it was on good terms, by mutual agreement or by a misunderstanding, it is easier to return to it and make it work. But if, on the contrary, the breakup was marked by violence or he was unfaithful to you, you should reconsider. Most likely, this type of situation will repeat itself and I don’t think you want to go through that difficult situation again. Sometimes we want to deceive ourselves and we just don’t want to think about the negative, but it is necessary to take stock. Another aspect to take into account is how does your ex look for you? What time does he call you? If he calls you when he’s drunk or just at night,
