With the concept of mental attraction we are referring to when, in more advanced moments within the relationship, we can know the way of thinking, feeling and walking through the world, about the other and we feel that these aspects cause us a deep attraction. We all agree that when we meet a person, the first thing we can see about the person is their physique, but later, we start to know them better and we can start to like them due to aspects of their personality. As for the common thing about the attraction, it is natural that in the first instance, we look at the appearance and then, this physical attraction will decrease to give way to mental attraction. However, we can spend a few months in an intense state of initial sexual desire, where we feel a certain madness and even obsession with the other person. Then we can begin to like it internally for what it is. The word attraction has different meanings, so it can be extrapolated to other elements with which we relate. In this regard, we quote an excerpt from the book “How to make the Law of Attraction work” written by Osho, which refers: “If you suffer it is because of you, if you are happy it is because of you, if you feel happy it is because of you. No one else is responsible for how you feel, only you and no one else. You are hell and heaven too.” We quote an excerpt from the book “How to make the Law of Attraction work” written by Osho, which states: “If you suffer it is because of you, if you are happy it is because of you, if you feel happy it is because of you. No one else is responsible for how you feel, only you and no one else. You are hell and heaven too.” We quote an excerpt from the book “How to make the Law of Attraction work” written by Osho, which states: “If you suffer it is because of you, if you are happy it is because of you, if you feel happy it is because of you. No one else is responsible for how you feel, only you and no one else. You are hell and heaven too.”
law of attraction
This is a Natural Law of the Universe, which consists of the belief that our lives can be influenced by our thoughts, whether they are conscious or unconscious. Based on the fact that thoughts have energy units that could return to the person an idea similar to the one they thought. This thought usually empowers people and makes them see the real capacity they have when they defeat the side of themselves that is unconscious and that may be boycotting them. According to this law, you can attract into your life, the elements to which you decide to put your energy. Next, we present some simple steps so that in addition to doing everything pertinent to achieve your goals, you can have the law of attraction on your side.
1.- Think about what you want
Which is what I want? That is the first question you have to ask yourself. If you feel that you are clearer about what you do not want, then it is good that you start by asking yourself what you do want. Do not worry about not having it clear from the beginning, since by asking yourself this question, you will put your brain to work, consciously and unconsciously, which will help you to find the answer. Knowing what you want, it is normal for you to feel afraid of the consequences and of what they will say, however, you want what you want. So focus your energy there, make a plan of action and execute it.
2.- Enjoy and be aware of all the good things you have
When we are wrong about something or feel that our actions could have been better, we tend to see our own shortcomings, to remember everything we have done wrong or to feel disgust in front of other experiences, and we dedicate part of our time and energy to this. . It is fair that then, we also dedicate time and energy to the positive of ourselves, have you ever thought about all the virtues you have? An activity that will help you is to go get a piece of paper and pencil and write five things that you like about yourself or that you feel grateful to have, the idea is that you don’t think about it too much and just do it. When you finish the activity, it is recommended that you keep the paper, so that you can use it when you have moments when you think about your shortcomings.
3.- Leave fear behind
Fear today, as a feeling, is generally not very useful, since there are few situations that deserve us to be paralyzed in order to preserve our lives. In this context, fear can still paralyze us, and it is up to us to go through and get to do what we have to do. In addition, this is responsible for sometimes magnifying the possible consequences of your actions. If you need to face a situation, say something or do something, do it with sincerity and assertiveness, but do what you really want and move on.
4.- Bet on optimism
Despite what has happened to you, if you have lost a loved one or have had to separate from your partner, we want to tell you that life goes on, that all the things you like are still there, that people who really love you, are also there. So the message is that good and bad things will happen to you and in between or that are not classifiable per se, but yes or yes, good things will happen to you, so enjoy them. In this regard Andy Wharhol in his book “Freeing yourself from mental attraction” states that: “The most interesting attractions are between two opposites that never meet.” As for the mental attraction, it is something that is felt with all the heart. So even though we can’t see it or touch it, we know it’s there. It can fill our soul, move us and make everything move to a different rhythm.
Many times, it may also override or cause us to ignore our reasoning, it may even stop us from being who we want to be. Although it may seem difficult to be able to free yourself from a mental attraction, this is not impossible and we will demonstrate it to you from the following propositions:
1.- Be realistic
Are you ready and willing to look at reality? Try for a moment to remove dreams, fantasies, beliefs from your thoughts and look at your life, look at your relationship. Carefully analyze the concrete facts regarding your relationship, do you like what you’re seeing?
2.- Listen to your intuition
Intuition is something that is felt, inside the soul. It allows us to know what we internally want and thanks to it we can make quick decisions without thinking, just feeling. Consequently, there are many actions that we can perform daily, automatically: for example, eating food, calling someone on the phone, choosing one path or another, getting to a place, etc. Connect for a moment with this feeling, with your body, with your heart, what does your intuition tell you about the person who attracts you mentally?
3.- Love yourself
On a daily basis, we can prioritize many situations and people, sometimes we even choose to satisfy the needs of others. If you feel identified, then think of plans that make you have time for yourself. We can quote Napoleon Hill, who affirms: “Man alone has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality, man alone can dream and make his dreams come true.”
So love yourself very much, make your dreams a reality, in the process, try to eat healthy, to be able to pamper yourself, travel and see the world, meditate and know yourself, try to write and be able to express what you have learned or what you want about your life, make meetings with your friends, try to feel joy in your body and in your soul. Really love yourself, because no one will be with you for your whole life, except you.